Modern Dating: The real challenge
There is almost universal interest in the area of love and relationships. In all the desire for loving close relationships there seem to be more problems than contentment.
Our desire for rich relationships seems to be matched only by the struggle and dissatisfaction in the relationships we actually have. In the attempt to help, there are plenty of resources to solve issues of communication in relationships or provide relationship advice or dating help. But if you step back, there are indications that we are missing something quite fundamental about relationships.
Before the Internet, the difficult part of relationships was meeting people outside of your own network or social group.
With the growth of online resources, meeting people should be easier. But for many of us it’s not. Why is it just so hard to find a satisfying and workable relationship?
Why is dating and finding a partner so difficult when the rest of our life works so well?
It is easy to conclude there is something wrong with us, or there are no good men and women left out there.
If you feel you are getting further and further away from finding a partner it’s common to try being more specific about what you want or what is ‘right for me’.
You might even feel pushed to compromise, or worse settle!
So what’s the solution?
To understand the invisible, but key factor that allows or prevents us having enjoyable, desirable relationships. If you cannot identify it, you cannot address it. If you do not understand it, you cannot navigate it effectively. The solution is to give you the ability to do both.
The outcomes are you, without your invisible limitations and discomforts. That is different for everyone.