Our Thoughts

Do you have rules about dating? Are they based on your previous relationship or dating experiences?

Are your rules designed to save time or to stop you getting hurt again?

And is your readiness affected by how you think about yourself and your assumptions of what other people may think about you?

It sounds a bit weird as I write that down. But it’s a great description of an unexpected twist in the story of one of our clients. She’s a gorgeous (ex ballerina) barely forty something. She recently joined our relationship program. She was confident in life, killing it in her career and used a lot of her drive to fuel a second career as what she describes as a ‘serial dater’. Driven and committed to finding the man of her ‘tick box’ dreams.

“For the first time I just turned up as myself.”

“We were both very comfortable really quickly.”

“He would not normally fit in to the boxes I made up in my head. I want to laugh at myself.”

These are some of the comments that were shared by clients during our first conversations on the Relationship Ready retreat.

If you would like to know more about how the programme works and how this may be of benefit to you, we would love to arrange for you to speak to one of our clients who has recently completed the programme.

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Yes absolutely. We have found that it’s very common for both men and women to get frustrated with this area of their life. We currently run the groups of women and men separately as we find people are more comfortable sharing in this format.

The London Retreat and USA Retreat pages will tell you when our next retreat starts. If dates are yet to be released for the particular program you’re interested in, please let us know you are interested and we will contact to let you know as soon as we have them.

We love to stay in touch after the course. It’s great to hear how you are getting on, what you are seeing in your life and how this is unfolding in your relationships.

There is always the ability to get extra support after the program. We offer (only to people who have done the program), the resource of booking additional coaching sessions so that you have the guidance you feel you need.

Lila and Susan will be working with you in the group setting for every in person retreat. During the individual coaching calls, you will be working with Susan or Lila. We try to choose a good fit for you but also we do give you a chance to work with both Susan and Lila so you can get a variety of learning styles.

For our Men’s retreat, you will be working with Lila and Aaron Turner.

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